It requires going against cultural programming in order to embrace a different way of being in the world. Radical self-love requires knowing yourself from within; there needs to be awareness of present conditions and how you got to where you are. You need to be able to see and understand your patterns and learn how to show compassion towards the younger version of yourself that was doing the best they could with the tools and consciousness they had at the time. Cultivating self-love is a deep internal process that will involve awareness, unlearning, and relearning that ultimately leads to inner self-worth. It requires you to slow down, get curious, and listen.
Learning to radically love and accept yourself is a revolutionary act.
revolution from within
Self-love is not ego-based (that’s self-protection). Self-love is “returning home” and is the way of empowerment. Your contribution to the collective means more when it has a solid foundation because you’re serving through love.
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There is a huge energetic distinction between self-love and narcissism. Narcissism is born out of deep pain which created an inflated ego. Their coping strategy to cover the initial wound became a toxic personality that is self-centered and needs to feel above other people in order to feel safe and keep its false sense of self. Narcissism is an extreme distortion vs. self-love that is based in self-worth.
Self-love is not arrogance.
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This is not a belief of perfection.
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It’s a radical acceptance of self (light and shadows + all lived experience) and an honoring of self through conscious living.
It’s also realizing that you are worthy of love simply because you are you.
There isn’t some imagined future where you’ll be healed enough to deserve love (healing is a lifelong journey; you learn to love yourself in your perfect imperfection right now).
Love isn’t withholding, it just is.
The mind will try to convince you that you have to do xyz AND THEN you'll be loveable, but the heart knows the truth.
Self-love is a way of being.
Self-love is whole-hearted living; you live with an open heart but with boundaries. It’s not selfish. When you have a full cup, you have more to give to others. People who love themselves (and have been to the depths of their own pain-this is a requirement) have more compassion for others.
It’s time to honor yourself and reclaim your magic because the world needs more people to come alive and express themselves from their heart!
Transformative Journey to Radical Self-Love
Shadow Work
Explore and understand the hidden aspects of your psyche, uncovering what personal triggers reveal on your path of self-discovery and individuation.
Inner Child Healing
Reconnect with your inner child to foster compassion and understanding, learning how to become the source of love and support you've always needed.
Relationship Inventory
Reflect on your relationships through the lens of attachment theories and familial patterns, gaining insights into how these dynamics influence your current interactions and self-perception.
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Develop the skills and confidence to establish and maintain boundaries that honor your needs and self-worth, creating space for authentic connections and personal growth.
Emotional Resilience and Self-Expression
Discover effective ways to identify, express, and honor your emotions and needs, building resilience and fostering authentic self-expression.
Energy and Movement Practices
Engage in physical activities designed to promote energy flow and body awareness, strengthening the mind-body connection and enhancing overall wellbeing.
Ignite Creativity
Explore the connection between creative expression and self-love, using creativity as a pathway to personal transformation and a deeper appreciation of your unique identity.
Personal Sovereignty
Embrace your inner power and autonomy, learning to navigate life with confidence, purpose, and a strong sense of self-worth.
Daily Alignment with Self-Worth
Integrate self-love into your everyday life through intentional and mindful practices to reinforce and embody self-worth consistently.
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